I was talking to my pregnant gf (yes its mine before you ask) on msn and she said her mum was talking to her about sex and said if she got pregnant before she was 20 then she wouldn’t let the baby under roof and I was getting scared even though I know my mum would be supportive (after she had finished shouting at me) and let the baby and her stay here till her mum comes round what can she do as she is now scared to tell her mum. HELP?
Her dad isn’t the problem she hardly ever see’s him and I’ve only met him once it’s just her mum

Of course they are awkward you knocked up daddy’s little girl.

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  1. Spiel ein spiel

    2010 Mar 09 1

    Of course they are awkward you knocked up daddy’s little girl.
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  2. Baby #2 Due 8/5/10

    2010 Mar 09 2

    Well how old are you guys. Maybe you should think about finding a job and getting an apartment so you can support your child. That is what a responsible parent does. They don’t just sit at home and make their mommy and daddy take care of their child.
    Obviously she is under 20 as are you. Maybe you should have been responsible in the first place and not had sex.
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  3. kit kat

    2010 Mar 09 3

    Well, unfortunately this isn’t something that you’ll be able to keep from them for too long if she is already pregnant. Depending on how old you both are and what your circumstances are, there may be more options than you’re aware of.

    If she is pregnant and planning to carry to term, then she will have lots of medical costs. If she is on her parents’ insurance, then they’ll need to know. Not to mention that they’ll see it eventually.

    I would reccommend deciding what you plan to do about the pregnancy first. Then, once you two are on the same page, you can go together and present a more confident and united front while talking to your loved ones. This way, you are showing that you are not completely hysterical and so others may feel more calm and in control as you appear to be. I’m not going to guarantee that they won’t be upset, but if it comes down to it you will have the support of your own parents and their anger may eventually fade.
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  4. Nikki? Hannah June Due 05/01/10?

    2010 Mar 09 4

    I think her parents were probably just trying to scare her. I’m sure they’ll be mad at first but they’ll come around to the idea. It may not be how they pictured life turning out for her but that is still their grandchild.
    That being said, I don’t know them so I can’t say for sure they weren’t serious. but like you said, you have your mom so you guys won’t be without any support and help!
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  5. gillian e

    2010 Mar 09 5

    Of course there going to say that, my parents said the same but when they see the baby they will come around they are not going to burn there bridges not and see there grandchild if u and ur girlfriend show an united front and that u two are serious about eachother then they will have to lesson

    Good Luck guys
    xxxxxxxxxx
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